21 August 2012

Adventura en la selva


Well the challenges keep arising!!  Between daily internet/water/electricity outages, seriously huge hairy spiders, eating guinea pig (cuy) for dinner, and challenges of kids just being kids (hospital trips for puncturing each other’s ears with toothpicks)… I’m learning to just go with the flow.  But we definitely have a lot of fun too :) Whether it’s a trip to the park or down to the river to play with the monkeys, I’m constantly amazed at this beautiful country.


Everyday here is a new adventure, but last Thursday was one in particular.  Earlier in the week we got a call saying the mother of the children in our care just gave birth to a little boy.  Although the natural reaction of our kids (especially the older ones) was excitement for their new sibling, it was hard to feel the same enthusiasm.  Don’t get me wrong- I fully believe all children are a part of God’s plan, but as I mentioned in my last post, this mother has no business having any children under her supervision.  Although the social worker assigned to this case thinks otherwise, I believe a parent with a history of severely, severely abusing children should not be allowed to care for another child.
On Thursday we decided to take our children to go visit their mother and see the new baby.  After getting lost in a very rural area of the Amazon, we walked barefoot up a muddy jungle path, in the pouring rain (with kids in our arms) to finally arrive at the house.  Since I had just spent a week in a Belizean village with no running water or electricity, I didn’t feel too out of place… until an indigenous Kituwah Indian appeared with a machete in one hand and a shot gun in the other.  It was sad to watch the kids react in fear, not due to the gun or machete, but rather because it was another person who had taken part in their abusive past, their grandfather.
Upon entering the house we found the mother in a side room with the sweet child in a hammock.  With nothing more than a dazed half smile on her face, she greeted her children whom she hadn’t seen in 9 months.  My heart broke for our kids as they were dealing with a whole range of emotions... I can only imagine what that felt like. 
We then inquired about the baby so she unwrapped him enough for us to see his frail body.  Since she gave birth to him in that house we were the first to see this baby and take note of his health.  Disagreeing with the social worker again, we believe this child is in a very unhealthy state, physically, in addition to the immediate danger of living with his own mother.
We are really praying and believing for this child to come live in our care.  We know this mother has had many children go “missing” in the past and we ask that you join us in prayer that this sweet baby isn’t the next.

We’ll be speaking with the social worker this week more about this case so I’ll try to update again soon.

I also want to mention that thanks to a group of 13 here from the UK, lots of work is being done at the orphanage this week.  We hope to have the official government documents back in 2 weeks which will allow us to open the orphanage. 
We’re thankful for progress!!

Dios te bendiga // God Bless,
Tanya
 

5 August 2012

First week in Tena

It’s been a crazy start to my time here in Ecuador!!  There’s so much to do that I can see why God has led me here.  And I’m so thankful for that.

Currently, we have 5 children in our care (all of whom are siblings) and plan to take in ~45 more children as we finish up the orphanage in 2-3 months.  Although I’ve only been here a short time, these kids are already dear to me.  Between listening to them pray before meals or receiving big hugs and kisses as they go to bed, I’m already in love. 


Although adjusting to Ecuador is also proving to have its challenges (my stomach is still losing the battle against authentic Ecuadorean cuisine haha), I’m glad I’m here. This week I learned that the mother of these children tried to blind and suffocate one of the girls many times. Her siblings were also extremely malnourished, packed full of parasites, and abused in a variety of ways.  I hate remembering that the sweet kids I now hold in my arms are the same ones who went through such horrific circumstances… but it reminds me as to why we’re here! God is so good for giving me this opportunity and I can honestly say there is nowhere I’d rather be.


I’m currently living in a lovely little apartment with the two boys, José and Tito.  Although my Spanish is still improving, we do our best to communicate (they don’t speak any English).  They recently discovered music on my computer in addition to the “photo booth” camera, so I’m sure we will keep each other entertained for quite some time.  Watching these precious Ecuadorian boys dance in their PJs to the Lion King soundtrack will never get old!!
Please keep praying for the children and that our team can accomplish everything quickly to have the orphanage open as soon as possible… the need is too great to waste any time.

Te mando amor de Ecuador,
Tanya

**To stay updated with the orphanage, “like” our facebook page: www.facebook.com/blessanorphan.  For ways to help the orphanage and the children here, you can visit www.blessanorphan.com or contact me at tanyalayman@gmail.com 
Some photos of the orphanage... still a lot of work to be done!!
The fish room... definitely my favorite  :)

The city of Tena